Vibrating panties with app are great for hands-free play, whether you’re alone or in the company of your boo. Some vibrating panties come with special underwear with pockets for the vibe, while others like the Lovense Ferri can be attached to any pair of undies and then controlled from a distance via an app.

Controlling Your Toy

Unlike a vibrator you attach to the nipples or vulva, most panty vibes fasten into the wearer’s undies, either by using a magnetic attachment that adheres to the bottom patch of fabric or tucked inside a pair of specially designed panties. The toy can be controlled via an app (as well as a remote control, sometimes) to vary the speed and tempo of vibration and/or apply pressure against the clit.

For those who want to experiment with this type of internal sex toy, a few reputable online sex toy retailers offer remote-control vibrating panties that come in various sizes to fit different body types and needs. For example, the OhMiBod Esca 2 can be controlled from an Apple or Android smartphone or even your wrist using its built-in haptic feedback. It’s an excellent sex toy for beginners or more experienced women looking for more intense orgasms.

For long-distance play, there are also a couple of apps that allow you and your partner to remotely connect and control your panty vibe from separate locations. For example, the Lovense Ferri is one of our favorites because it delivers powerful, pinpoint clit stimulation and offers a number of customization options for couples who love to play together. Just make sure you and your partner are both on the same page about how to use this toy before you start playing!

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Long-Distance Play

If you’re buying a vibrating panty for long-distance play, you’ll want to look for one that’s compatible with your partner’s phone. This way, they can control your vibe remotely. This feature is especially useful if you’re playing at home, but it can also add excitement to a date or party.

Certified sexologist Marla Renee Stewart, MA, says that while physical remotes limit your play to nearby fun, an app-compatible panty will let you and your boo share control. Some apps like Lovense’s give you the option to send your partner a one-time control link that gives them TIMED access to your sex toy, while others allow you to build a list of saved partners for unrestricted play.

You can even use a Bluetooth panty in public without anyone knowing by using it as a discreet clitoral tickler. This way, you can tease yourself with the naughty sensation or stimulate your clitoris during foreplay at work, a shopping street, or a library.

The best wearable vibrators for long-distance play are sexy, discrete, and lightweight. For example, the sexy Span vibrating panty by Vibease is super cute and slimline to fit into your crotch, but it still feels powerful enough to create orgasms at the touch of a button. It’s also easy to wear while dancing, working, or running errands.

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Discreet Play

For those who like to explore a wide variety of sensations, a vibrating panty can be a fun new way to spice things up. You can use one alone or with a partner, and it’s also great for masturbation. You can even take it on the go and enjoy it in public. Just be sure to talk with your partner about how you plan to use it and decide on a style of play together. For example, if you’re using it for edge play and your partner loves it too, it’s important to set the boundaries of the experience with clear communication.

Typically, external vibrating panties use either pockets that are stitched into your underwear or magnet clips that attach to them. This makes them easy to conceal, and they’re often made for a one-size-fits-most approach. This means they might not fit well on very petite or plus-sized women.

If you’re looking for a more discreet option, the app-enabled ZALO Aya is an excellent choice. It’s small and light enough to slip into your pants or underwear, and the inconspicuous ring remote makes it almost impossible for people to spot it. It’s also whisper quiet, making it a great option for discreet play in public. Whether you’re enjoying it by yourself or with your partner, you can access its infinite vibration patterns via the app.

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A vibrating panty with an app offers a lot of customization. You can play with settings to tease or suck your partner’s clitoris, increase the intensity of vibration, and even sync up with music for mind-blowing orgasms. It’s easy to switch between modes as well, so you can keep the fun and the arousal going, even if your partner can’t reach you.

Many brands have also made their vibrating panties more discreet, using smaller, quieter motors and adding softer textures that are gentle on the clitoris. We-Vibe’s Moxie, for example, uses a magnetic clip so the vibe doesn’t migrate inside your underwear or slip out. The Moxie’s bump is positioned so it rests above, under, or on your clit, so you can choose the position that feels best.

If you’re trying to decide what type of panty vibe is best for you, Sanchez recommends doing a self check-in to assess how you experience pleasure. If you prefer internal stim, look for an insertable panty vibe like the ZALO Aya or a clitoral vibrator with pinpoint precision like the Tracy’s Dog Starship. If you want a more public play vibe, the Moxie’s magnetic clip means it can be worn with almost any non-crotchless pair of underwear. However, the Moxie does droop a little in boxers and might attract attention in busy places, so be aware of that before you buy.