Car sex is a fun and intimate way to spice up your relationship. It’s also a great option if you’re short on privacy.

Just be sure to pick a secluded spot so that you don’t attract unwanted attention. Also, try listening to sexy music, says Play, because it can amp up sensations and make you even more hardcore.


Parks are a great place for car sex because they’re often large and secluded enough to hide your movements from the eyes of anyone walking by. Whether you’re into oral or penetrative play, this is the place to go. Just be sure to pack a cooler with ice water and extra lube in case the car gets hot. Play says music can also make a big difference when it comes to heightening the experience. He suggests creating a playlist that’s full of sexy jams to play in the backseat while you’re humping.

A previous Cosmo survey showed that 80% of dudes fantasized about car sex. It’s easy to see why: The intimacy and speed of a car sex session can be both exciting and satisfying. Just remember to be quiet and quick to avoid getting caught.

Another great option for outdoor car sex is a beach. Since people usually walk slowly and don’t go up to cars, you can take your time to find the right spot to hook up. Badzioch suggests a missionary position or a partner-on-top/cowgirl position to conserve space and get down to business.

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You can also try getting down to business at a cemetery. Unlike parks, most cemeteries aren’t as crowded and will give you plenty of privacy to get your jollies on. Just be careful and keep your windows closed—there may be bugs or wild animals lurking in the forest around you.


A cemetary may be a bit too dark and spooky for some, but if you’re up for this challenge, it’s one of the best places to have car sex. Just make sure you check out the parking lot ahead of time to find a spot that’s deserted and free from the general public’s prying eyes. This is an especially good place to try out car sex during the colder months, when most people aren’t likely to frequent cemeteries as often.

The idea of being fucked in the back seat of a car isn’t exactly appealing for most women and men, but it can actually be quite hot. “As an adult with a grown-up car, recapturing that horny teen spirit can actually be pretty wild,” says certified intimacy and wellness coach Margo Badzioch.

While car sex isn’t technically illegal, you could face a charge of indecent exposure depending on your situation and where your car is parked. For example, you could get a ticket or even arrested if you’re parked in the middle of a busy city street with lots of cars whizzing by. It’s also possible to get charged with indecent exposure if you’re parked near a school, church, or amusement park and people are around. So if you’re going to go for this sexy adventure, be mindful of your surroundings.

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Public Parking Lots

While car sex isn’t necessarily illegal, it can be risky if you get caught. Especially in a public place, where you could face fines or even jail time. That’s why it’s important to plan your adventure carefully, and choose a spot that’s safe, hidden, and unlikely to attract the attention of others.

If you want to give it a try, consider visiting a parking lot before sunset or after midnight when most people won’t be around. A good option is to find an empty parking lot underground so that nobody will be able to see what you’re up to.

You can also try your luck at a drive-in cinema, which is another pretty quiet spot where you can savour your sexy moment. A couple of parked cars and a film projector can create the perfect intimate atmosphere.

Of course, you can’t go anywhere without thinking about how to make your experience as sexy and hot as possible. Play suggests bringing baby wipes to clean yourself up, some silk pillows for sensation play, and even a bouquet of flowers to add a sweet, romantic touch. Of course, don’t force this on your partner if they’re not open to it—it’s all about being comfortable and enjoying your time together. Besides, you can always try it again somewhere else! Just be sure to talk it over with your partner beforehand so that you’re both on the same page.

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It may sound weird, but having sex in your car can be pretty hot. Just make sure you’re parked somewhere people can’t see or hear you. Otherwise, your screams of passion might just be misinterpreted as something else.

Having sex in your car can be awesome if you live with roommates, a dog or kids (or both). It’s also great if you can’t get it on at home for some reason.

Car sex is definitely not for everyone, but it can be hot AF if you’re ready to go all out. Just be careful, especially during the day. Unless you’re in a really private spot, it only takes one person to walk by and catch you in the act for you to find yourself with a public sex violation on your record.

If you’re a little more adventurous, you can try out some of the fun positions you can do in your car for sex. A popular choice is the side spoon, where you lay down on the seat with your partner and insert their penis. You can also try the seated rear entry, which is when your man’s in the passenger seat and you’re on top, facing away from him. It gives you a great angle for thrusting.